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Karen Kartika's avatar

There’s no easy way to say goodbye. I thought I have had a lot of practice since I have moved or traveled across the world, states, cities, homes, offices, and schools in almost 20 years. But, my stomach would still crunch, and tears would well up uncontrollably at that moment when I knew that the second I turned my back, I would not see those people, places, desks, beds—again. As much as I tried to convince myself that... "it’s life, I have to move on" - my mind would race with questions like "am I making the worst decision?" "Will I see them again?" "What if I don’t like where I am going?" "Argh, I should have said..." - which were all too late!

I surrendered.  I surrendered to the emotions, and I felt sad in that moment. I said my goodbyes and expressed my gratitude. I thanked them for the moments we got to spend together, the good and the bad, and for everything I got to learn, generate, and let go. 

At the same time, my feet would walk where I needed to go. I could still move forward, even while my heart was processing my grief. 

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Thanks for the prompt! Enjoy your new home 🏡

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David's avatar

I have moved 30 plus times in my life across 4 continents and 9 countries - never, gets, easier. Good luck with the move!

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